Имя: Deamora
One guy studies in my university. I meet him everywhere — when I go to the university, when I go smoking on the breaks, in the corridors, on few lessons, when I go home (now even in my dreams)… 70% I can say that I like him. I’m veeeeeeeeeeeery afraid to meet with him or even to say a word. What if he has girlfriend? I’ll go mad soon. What should I do?
Try to find out more facts about him through your friends for e.g. How does he behave on seeing you? Is he looking at your, smiling, getting embarrassed? I always had the same problem — if i liked somebody i was afraid of him. I think you should overcome your fear. Certainly you shouldn’t cry: «I like you!» and hang on him… Try to look at him friendly and smile. It won’t kill both of you. Even if he does have a girlfriend. It’s better to know it than to guess about it. You say you’ll go mad, it’s because of uncertainty. As soon as everything becomes clear you’ll feel better and easier. Good luck!
if you want a long-term relationship with him — you should have a stab at making frineds with him. not necessarily to have an affair from the start. gradually, when you learn more about each other, you’ll understand what you want from him and yourself.
otherwise if you feel it is unstoppable, knee-shaking lust — go for a crazy hot physical relationship. be ready to have it ending quickly as passion exhausts quickly.
you choose, girl!
Good Luck, Love & Hapiness!
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